I work for a small biotech company. For the most part, my manager is fine. He pretty much leaves me alone to do my work, and is generally supportive. But some days he drives me nuts! Thoughts? – Name withheld
According to The Gallup Organization, only one out of every 10 humans has the ‘God-given’ talent to manage a team of people. They also estimate an alarming 82% of all supervisors have been ‘miscast’ in the role.
So consider yourself lucky. That you like your manager at all suggests you’re among the fortunate few.
Still, I get your frustration. Most ‘bosses’ can be tough to work for, even the very best. That’s not to excuse their (mis)behavior, though. Nor is it meant to suggest they can’t improve – perhaps even dramatically. In other words, Gallup might claim that the capacity to manage, and manage well, is something you’re either born with or not, but I would argue otherwise. Inept or bad managers are not beyond salvation, in my opinion. Their real problem is even more fundamental than that:
Most managers struggle because the one thing they think they know about managing is wrong.
Here’s how your manager probably views his role: As manager, he’s ‘in charge.’ That means he does the telling, and you and everyone else who reports to him do the listening, then the doing. What to do, how to do it, and by when – that’s for him to decide, not you. And while he may be willing to leave you well enough alone for the most part, as you say, undoubtedly you both understand that should push come to shove and the two of you disagree on something, it’s his opinion that rules the day, not yours. That’s what being ‘the boss’ means, to him— and probably to you, too—and seemingly for good reason. This sort of bargain would seem absolutely necessary if the business you work for is to have even a chance of succeeding.
Unfortunately, however, there isn’t a shred of evidence to back any of this up.
In fact, according to the best available evidence managers are more effective—and their organizations are more profitable—when they behave as if their employees are in charge of them, not the other way around.
I’ll say that again: Managers are more effective when they see their function as one of support, not power, control, or authority.
Research by Google, Gallup, Harvard, and a study associated with the Wharton school all demonstrate as much. But the underlying logic isn’t hard to follow. Engaged or ‘enthusiastic’ employees are more productive than their less motivated counterparts (by some measures, as much as 40 percent more). This gives the businesses they work for a competitive advantage in the marketplace. The key then is getting the hoped for levels of enthusiasm from your employees – and that’s best achieved by listening to, supporting, and giving them the things they need to do their jobs to the best of their ability.
Or, as one study bluntly puts it, managers are more effective when they ‘give employees what they want.’
Needless to say, most managers don’t see things this way.
Again, your manager considers himself to be in charge, and probably behaves accordingly whenever he can. He inclination is to tell you what to do, because to him that’s ‘managing.’ He may of course also do what you ask him to do on occasion – or even most of the time. But he’s likely to bristle at the suggestion that that’s the sum total of his job.
So don’t be too hard on your manager. It’s not really his fault.
I’m guessing nobody’s ever told him that the one thing he thinks he knows about managing is wrong.
 The Gallup Organization. 2015. The State of the American Manager: Analytics and Advice for Leaders.
 The Google study, termed ‘Project Oxygen,’ is available as a free download at the company’s website. See also: Wagner, R. & Harter, J. 2006. 12, The Elements of Great Managing, New York: Gallup Press; Hill, L. 2003. Becoming a Manager, Boston, MA: Harvard Business School Press; Sirota, D., Mischkind, L. A. & Meltzer, M. I. 2005. The Enthusiastic Employee, Upper Saddle River, NJ: Wharton School Publishing.
 Pfeffer, J. 1998. The Human Equation, Boston: Harvard Business School.
 Sirota, et. al.